Are you an optimist or a pessimist?
An optimistic person is always looking for the best in any situation and expecting good things to happen. Optimism is the tendency to believe, expect or hope that things will turn out well even when bad things happen.
A pessimist thinks the opposite way, always seeing the worst in any situation. Pessimists see positive events as something outside their control that probably won’t happen again.
Because of their thought processes, optimists have much brighter futures. A bad circumstance or event is taken in stride, viewed as a temporary setback not a permanent way of life. Even if something bad happens today, a positive thinker learns from the experience and believes that good things will come in the future. No wonder research has shown that optimists are sick less and live longer than pessimists. Apparently, a positive outlook on life strengthens the immune system and the general body defenses against illness, improves the cardiovascular system (optimists have fewer heart attacks), and it helps the body's ability to handle and manage stress.
That means if you change your thinking you can change your life. I am not saying you should be an optimist without logic, however I am urging you to start thinking positively and transmit positive energy into your daily life and interactions. All of us affect and are affected by the people we meet in one way or another. Look at it this way, negativity is a habit similar to smoking, you know it is bad for you! You have to believe that negativity is bad for you it in order to make a change, so first step is to persuade yourself. In order to successfully change the external, you must first change the internal. If you just work on changing external conditions the results will be temporary at best, if you work on changing the internal the results will be long lasting; happiness, health, and success will be within your grasp.
If you are an observer of human behavior you would surely notice that people in general like to be around positive happy people and are more willing to provide them with cooperation and help, while at the same time avoiding the ones broadcasting negativity. What you give is what you receive; if you give positive you will receive positive and you will help creating more positive energy, if you give negative you will receive negative and you will cause the creation of more negative.
Work on developing a positive attitude and optimistic outlook on life, you will be amazed at the results. Awaken yourself to this truth; the way to a better more successful and healthier life is clearer than most people think. Weed out the negativity such as fear and worry and train your conscious mind to think thoughts of health, success, prosperity, and happiness. Visualize what you really want to happen and expect things will turn out to the better; when it happens do not be afraid, seize the moment and act.
Are you still not sure how it works?
Let me leave you with this thought: a cup of tea is not a cup of tea unless you put tea in it. If you fill it with negative it will become a cup of negative! If you fill it with positive it will become a cup of positive!
Become a cup of positive and your wishes will come true! I truly believe that’s how it works. Try it!
Sifu/Guru Kamille Louis